Self-Transformation 8-week Programs

We all have a need to feel accepted and loved unconditionally. If your parents were not loved unconditionally, they each developed an inner child which felt unloved. This made it hard for your parents to love you the way you wanted and needed to be loved. When you were not loved unconditionally, you too developed an inner child which felt unloved.

Your needy inner child, which feels unloved, is locked into the past. It feels that the past has been difficult and painful and is afraid that the future will be the same way. It is afraid and doesn’t feel worthy.

The thoughts and beliefs of your needy inner child are based on fear, hurt and remorse. There are thoughts of self-recrimination and replaying of old programs of parental disapproval, which now manifest as self-judgment. The underlying message of your needy inner child is, “Life is a struggle." Your needy inner child believes it is a victim of the world and carries an underlying feeling of hopelessness and helplessness.

The way out of this needy inner child rut is first to gain a sense of detachment, which allows you to observe your needy inner child’s thought system in action. Whenever there is a feeling of fear or tension in your body, you can know that there is an underlying attachment or identification with a needy inner child belief system.

The first step towards healing your needy inner child is through non-judgmental observing. Observing with non-judgment and love allows you the freedom, detachment and the perspective which fosters deep healing. As you learn to be compassionate and understanding of your inner child, the journey to healing begins. If this is done consistently, the needy inner child begins to feel safe and eventually sees a new direction. As you continue this path of observing your needy inner child with love, a sense of hope that the past need not be repeated begins to emerge and a transformation occurs. You will feel more relaxed and will have a sense of trust that you are safe and loved.

In this 8-week Healing Inner Child Program, you will learn how to give your needy inner child the nurturing attention it has always wanted. As you participate in the Healing Inner Child Program, you will learn to pay attention to what your needy inner child says, thinks, feels and how it behaves. You will learn to observe it with detachment and compassion, realizing you can transform and heal it with the help of your Higher Self.

In the supportive environment of a group or one on one, you will learn that you are not alone and have a choice to perceive your situation differently. The shared experiences and activities provide a rich opportunity to release limiting fears and bring more unconditional love into your life.

Included is a workbook with eight lessons that can be a journal of your inner child healing. Weekly focus cards, a guided audio meditation CD/MP3 (a male & female voice version) that will help you bring your inner child issues to your Higher Self for transformation, and 8 one on one weekly hour sessions with me. What you remember will be applied to all your relationship — your spouse, significant other, co-workers, friends and relatives.

The topics of the 8 weekly sessions are:

• Nurturing Your Inner Child — Becoming Your Needy Inner Child's Nurturing Parent
• The Inner Critical Parent — Replacing Self-Criticism with Self-Nurturing
• Inner Child Baggage — Recognizing & Healing Self-Destructive Thoughts
• Connecting with Higher Self — Learning to Connect Your Inner Child with Inner Wisdom
• Transforming Fear — Rocognizing Needy Inner Child Cries for Love
• Stop, Look & Listen — Paying Attention to Who Is in Charge
• Healing Relationships — Seeing Through the Needy Inner Child to Light Essence
• Simple, Uncomplicated Love — Expanding Your Identity to Being Love

***Please allow 7-10 business days for the arrival of your materials. When you receive your materials, book your sessions. Please book all 8 sessions at the same time to ensure your 8-weekly sessions*** 

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We all have moments of feeling helpless, out of control and at the mercy of forces seen as outside ourselves. Feeling this way is discouraging, depressing, and sometimes overwhelming. We may also feel angry or resentful. We are ready to defend or withdraw at the slightest provocation out of the frustration of being at the mercy of forces seemingly beyond our control. At times like this, we do not feel peaceful.

Your innate Inner Being is peaceful. If you are not experiencing peace, there is a barrier between us and our peaceful Inner Presence, based on belief in separation. What is needed to return to peace and Love is to let your true Self transform the thoughts that formed the barrier. The barrier was created when you accepted the idea that you could be different from your true Self. The barrier disappears when you are willing to let your True Self be in charge of all your thoughts.

Every experience in your life is simply a reflection of your thoughts. Your life is transformed when you realize that what you perceive in the outer world is in fact an effect of your thoughts. Your thoughts are not the result of what you experienced. What you experience is based on what you believe. Knowing this gives you back the control you always felt belonged to you but which seemed to be out of reach and seemingly unchangeable.

You can choose your thoughts. You are the one who thinks them. When you accept this, you shine a bright light on your pathway Home — to fully knowing you are Love and one with the Love in All. Change becomes possible. As you let your true Self shine a Light on these false beliefs, peace returns and you receive clarity and a deep sense of wellbeing. Thought by thought, you begin changing your experience.

Thought by thought, you let go of your sense of being separate and alone. You identify with being one with all Love. The Light of your True Self begins to shine through the fear, guilt and anger to uncover your true Identity. The purpose of this Spiritual Awakening Program is to provide a loving, supportive, nonjudgmental environment to nurture your spiritual growth.

During the eight weeks of the Spiritual Awakening Program, you will learn how to receive Inner Guidance more clearly and how to apply what you are learning in your daily life experience. The program setting will help you uncover your own innate Wisdom in a nurturing environment of safety and trust. This environment makes it easy to release limiting concepts you no longer need.

With my loving support, a one on one or group setting, you can let down your defenses, your shields, even your denials as you realize you are not alone. As you do this, you can allow yourself to experience the unconditional Love, joy and inner peace, which is your true Nature.

Through empowering experiential processes, the Spiritual Awakening Program helps you grow and expand your awareness of your true Spiritual Nature with support and shared insight. There are many activities to help you connect feelings with ideas so you can make the ideas work in your life.

This workbook can be a journal of your awakening. Space is provided to write notes about your experiences, meditations and discussion questions. Later you may want to look back at what you wrote. It will serve as an encouraging confirmation of your progress. You will see how much insight you have gained and how far you have come on your journey Home.

The topics of the 8 weekly sessions are:

• Accepting Abundance — Letting Spirit Be in Charge
• Opening to Inner Guidance — Strengthening Communication with Your Inner Guidance
• Going Gently — A Process for Achieving Greater Awareness
• Transforming Your Life — Changing Your Thoughts to Change Your World
• The Awakened Perspective — Releasing Judgment and Allowing Love to Shine Through
• Accelerating Your Growth — Seeing the Messages in Your Relationships
• Building Your House of Light — Making Every Moment an Empowering Experience
• Divine Play — Celebrating Love — Oneness

 ***At the time of booking your appointment, please book all 8 appointments. One hour each week for the next 8 weeks***